An exhortation to the wife
The wife's desire is to her husband...
Genesis 3:16 KJV......"and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee."
But there is a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing.
Ecclesiastes 3:1,5 KJV To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: ... [5].... "a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;"
So let your husband do the work he needs to do to provide for you; then embrace him. It will be hard at times (1 Cor. 7:28 KJV..."trouble in the flesh"); but just do the work that the Lord has for you.
Psalm 37:4 KJV Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
And it will work out in the end.
Romans 8:28 KJV And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.